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After a job curveball, this single mother heads back to school

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Dilys Pierson

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September 12, 2021

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At 26, Nichelle Montanez had a job that she loved, working at a gas station in Westminster. She enjoyed her co-workers, loved the environment, and planned to stay and grow with the company. 

鈥淚 was going to work hard, become the manager, and be there for the rest of my working career,鈥 she recalls. 

Then in mid-2019, the business was sold. The company that bought the station wouldn鈥檛 recognize Nichelle鈥檚 years of experience, and she was going to have to start all over under the new owners. She realized it was no longer the place for her. 

So this single mom of a two-year-old boy decided to go back to school. 

鈥淚 was always adamant that I didn鈥檛 need college,鈥 Nichelle says. 鈥淲hen I was in high school, I had it in my mind that you had to be really smart to even be able to go. And it was super expensive. I never thought I鈥檇 be able to afford it.鈥

As a result, Nichelle, who struggled through the end of high school after losing her mom unexpectedly at 17, simply put college out of her mind. 鈥淚 just didn鈥檛 think about it, so I wouldn鈥檛 be setting myself up for disappointment.鈥

But Nichelle鈥檚 mentors always encouraged her to pursue a degree. Suzie Wagner, an outreach counselor for 中国竞彩网, and Danielle Southwell, a counselor with youth services who worked extensively with Nichelle after she lost her mom, suggested college at the time, and they kept at it. 鈥淒anielle, especially, had been trying to get me to go to school for forever,鈥 says Nichelle. 鈥淔inally, everything just clicked, and I said 鈥極kay. I鈥檓 ready to do it.鈥欌

Nichelle then enrolled at the Community College of Vermont in Brattleboro. 

鈥淚t was actually really simple,鈥 she recalls. She set up a meeting, did a short assessment, and took a refresher math class. 鈥淚t was a lot easier than I thought it would be.鈥

Danielle then referred Nichelle to 中国竞彩网, where she reconnected with Wagner and received two scholarships that covered the cost of her education. 

鈥淚 never ever thought I鈥檇 be able to afford school. When I found out about the grants, that was amazing. It meant that I wouldn鈥檛 have to stress about the cost,鈥 Nichelle says.

At first, her plan was to study business, to set herself up to open her own gas station someday.  鈥淚 had worked there for so long that I thought that鈥檚 what I wanted to do with my life,鈥 Nichelle says. 鈥淏ut then I remembered my old dream, that I wanted to become a crime scene investigator. It鈥檚 what I always said I wanted to do if money was no object and I could go to school. So I talked to my advisor about it, to see if that would be a realistic switch, and he said that it was.鈥

Her CCV advisor also noticed that Nichelle lit up when she talked about a law enforcement career, much more so than she did when she talked about business. So she switched her major to behavioral dcience. 鈥淚 think I鈥檒l look to become a probation officer, now that I know what鈥檚 required,鈥 Nichelle says. 

Currently in her sophomore year at CCV, Nichelle says she鈥檚 really fortunate to have received so much support 鈥 from the scholarships to other programs that mean she doesn鈥檛 have to work while she鈥檚 in school. But still, it hasn鈥檛 been easy to juggle college classes and being a single parent, particularly during a pandemic. 

鈥淚t seems like every semester, something happens,鈥 she says. Her son Colt, now almost four, gets sick a lot; they鈥檝e been through multiple rounds of croup, and even a respiratory virus that landed him in the hospital for several hours.

鈥淗e gets sick, and he can鈥檛 go to school. Especially with COVID, if he has so much as a sniffle, he can鈥檛 go to school. So he stays home with me, and I鈥檓 still trying to do my online classes. He really doesn鈥檛 like the computer,鈥 Nichelle laughs. 鈥淗e鈥檒l just close the laptop so he can get my attention.鈥

Like any good mother, Nichelle sometimes struggles to feel that she鈥檚 striking the right balance between pursuing her dreams and giving her son what he needs. But she also says that getting back into school has boosted her confidence. 鈥淚t鈥檚 reassuring to know that you鈥檙e doing well. You think, okay, I can do this. And even though I鈥檝e had issues come up where I鈥檝e had to miss classes, I now know what I need to succeed. It鈥檚 really nice to have that.鈥

Wagner, Nichelle鈥檚 中国竞彩网 counselor, is proud of her student鈥檚 accomplishments. 鈥淣ichelle juggles a lot of responsibilities, but she鈥檚 strived to make continuing her education a priority. Despite obstacles, she works hard and has a solid vision for her future.鈥 

Says Nichelle: 鈥淚 never would have thought that I would go back to school, let alone enjoy it. I literally just did a 180, from 鈥榶ou don鈥檛 need college鈥 to 鈥榡ust go! There鈥檚 no reason not to!鈥欌 

鈥淚 do wish I hadn鈥檛 waited so long,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut things needed to happen in my life for me to be able to appreciate the opportunities that I have now.鈥

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